P. Gregory Frey

Gregory Frey is a senior family law attorney in Honolulu with more than three decades of experience. He focuses on divorce, custody, child support, paternity, mediation, and related matters, offering practical solutions rooted in compassion and advocacy. Known as an “old school attorney,” Gregory is recognized for his client-centered approach and his belief that great lawyers not only fight for their clients but also give back to the community.

Gregory earned his B.A. in history from Santa Clara University and went on to earn his J.D. from Willamette University College of Law, where he excelled in moot court and academics. He later pursued an M.A. in psychology at Honolulu University, furthering his understanding of people and families. His educational path reflects both intellectual discipline and human insight, giving him the ability to address legal and emotional dimensions in family law disputes.

Beyond his practice, Gregory has contributed extensively to Hawaii’s legal community. He served on the Hawaii State Bar Association Board for nearly a decade and was elected its president in 2020. He has been appointed as a Special Master in divorce and paternity cases, and volunteered with Access to Justice programs, Volunteer Legal Services of Hawaii, and the Mediation Center of the Pacific. His leadership also extends to community boards, alumni associations, and nonprofit organizations, where he continues to give back generously.

Gregory Frey’s service and dedication have earned him recognition, including multiple Kahiau Awards from Volunteer Legal Services of Hawaii, induction into the Santa Clara Rugby Hall of Fame, and selection as a Hawaii Super Lawyer for family law. With decades of courtroom experience, leadership roles, and community service, Gregory provides trusted guidance and strong advocacy to families across Hawaii, combining professional skill with a lifelong commitment to service.

Law Office Affiliations

• Partner & Senior Attorney, Coates Frey & Hackett, AAL LLLC
• Member, American Bar Association
• Member, Hawaii State Bar Association
• Member, Association of Trial Lawyers of America
• Member, American Judicature Society
• President, Hawaii State Bar Association (2020)
• Chairperson, Hawaii State Bar Association, Family Law Section (2002)
• Board Member, Hawaii State Bar Association, Family Law Section
• Director, Hawaii State Bar Association, Oahu (2004 to 2010)
• Vice-Chairperson, Hawaii State Bar Association, Family Law Section
• Life Member, National Conference of Bar Presidents

Licensed State

• Hawaii

Education

• Willamette University College of Law
  Juris Doctor (JD)
• Honolulu University
  MA in Psychology
• Santa Clara University
  Bachelor of Arts (Major: History)

Awards & Badges