About
Gary Oberst, Esq., is a senior partner and experienced trial attorney at Oberst DeFala Law, PC, serving clients in Connecticut and beyond. He represents individuals and businesses in complex legal matters, including family law, divorce, civil litigation, business disputes, and estate planning. As a skilled advocate, he works to resolve conflicts through negotiation, mediation, or litigation when necessary. His broad practice allows him to guide clients through difficult decisions with clear advice, steady leadership, and practical strategies focused on lasting results. He protects client rights diligently and consistently.
Gary earned his B.S. from Pennsylvania State University and his J.D. Cum Laude from Quinnipiac University School of Law. His academic training built a strong foundation in legal research, writing, and courtroom advocacy. While in law school, he completed the Mediation Certificate Program through the Quinnipiac School of Law Center on Dispute Resolution, strengthening his ability to settle disputes efficiently and professionally. He continues to apply this education to deliver thoughtful and well-prepared representation for clients across practice areas.
Gary, admitted to practice in Connecticut, the District of Columbia Court of Appeals, and the United States Supreme Court, brings wide experience to every case. He handles business representation, collections, landlord-tenant matters, intellectual property issues, and computer law matters. In family law matters, he assists clients with divorce, legal separation, prenups, postnups, alimony, child support, and same-sex representation, always focusing on fair and workable outcomes. He works closely with clients to protect their rights at every stage.
Gary Oberst also serves as the City of Norwalk Zoning Citation Officer, demonstrating his commitment to public service and regulatory compliance. He is active in the Connecticut Bar Association, Fairfield County Bar Association, and American Bar Association. Through board leadership and professional affiliations, he supports community institutions while maintaining high ethical standards. Clients value his clear communication, strategic thinking, and steady guidance during challenging legal matters. He consistently strives to deliver practical solutions tailored to each client.
Law Office Affiliations
- Senior Partner, Oberst DeFala Law, PC
- Member, Connecticut Bar Association
- Member, Fairfield County Bar Association
- Member, American Bar Association
Licensed State
- Connecticut
Education
- Quinnipiac University School of Law
Juris Doctor (JD) Cum Laude - Pennsylvania State University
Bachelor of Science
Awards & Badges



- Science & Technology
- Probate
- Trusts
- Wills And Living Wills
- Alimony
- Child Custody
- Child Support
- Divorce & Separation
- Marriage And Prenuptials
- Paternity
- Uncontested Divorce
- Copyright
- LGBTQ Family
- Landlord Or Tenant




