About
Gray Ellis is the founder and managing partner of Ellis Family Law, representing individuals and families in complex legal matters for more than two decades. His practice focuses on family law and estate planning, providing steady counsel during emotionally challenging transitions while protecting clients’ rights, interests, and long-term security through strategic advocacy.
Gray earned his Juris Doctor, cum laude, from North Carolina Central University School of Law after completing a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science with High Honors from North Carolina State University. This academic background established a strong foundation in legal analysis, advocacy, and problem-solving essential to family-centered legal practice.
Gray is a Board Certified Specialist in Family Law by the North Carolina Board of Legal Specialization, a distinction held by a small percentage of attorneys statewide. His practice includes divorce, child custody, support, equitable distribution, and estate planning matters, with a focus on tailored solutions aligned with each client’s unique goals.
Throughout his career, Gray has earned widespread recognition for professional excellence from respected legal rating organizations. These honors reflect consistent peer recognition, adherence to ethical standards, and dedication to high-quality legal representation in North Carolina courts across family law and related practice areas.
Beyond private practice, Gray remains actively engaged in professional organizations and continuing legal education. His leadership roles and teaching contributions demonstrate a commitment to advancing family law practice, mentoring professionals, and staying current with evolving legal standards and policies affecting families.
Through thoughtful counsel and disciplined advocacy, Gray Ellis continues to guide clients through critical life decisions with clarity and care. His approach emphasizes communication, preparation, and respect, ensuring clients receive knowledgeable representation and practical guidance as they navigate family law and estate planning challenges with confidence.
Law Office Affiliations
- Founder & Managing Partner, Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C.
- Member, North Carolina State Bar
- Member, Durham County Bar Association
- Member, North Carolina Advocates for Justice
- Chair, North Carolina Family Bar, Modern Family Committee
Licensed State
- North Carolina
Education
- North Carolina Central University School of Law
Juris Doctor (JD) - North Carolina State University
Bachelor of Arts (BA)
Awards & Badges







- Power of Attorney
- Trusts
- Wills & Living Wills
- Alimony
- Child Custody
- Divorce & Separation
- Domestic Violence
- Marriage & Prenuptial Agreements
- Military Divorce
- Paternity
- LGBTQ Family




